Spenders, Savers & the Stingy Uncle Who Actually Had a Plan

 

Spender vs. Saver: The Battle of the Wallets

Now let’s talk about the legendary spender versus the mysterious saver:

The Spender:

Generous. Kind. The life of the party. His wallet opens faster than a WhatsApp voice note during gossip. Everyone loves him, until his account balance starts singing “Dry like Harmattan.”

He gives and gives… until he can’t give anymore.

The Saver:

Ah, the “stingy” one. 

The one who asks you 17 questions before lending you money, makes you write a business proposal to borrow ₦10k, and even prays with you about the loan.

But guess what? 

When real emergencies hit, it’s the saver who still has the capacity to help because they planned.

They’re not stingy. 

They’re strategic givers. 

Philanthropists with a spreadsheet. 

THE REAL LESSON?

ALIGN YOUR RESOURCES WITH YOUR PURPOSE.

Your money, time, energy, and talents, direct them toward goals that matter. If not, you’ll spend your life chasing shadows and clapping for people who planned better.

As my ever-wise father always says:

“If you’re carrying an elephant, you shouldn’t be chasing grasshoppers.”

Translation: Focus! Carry your wahala with sense.

CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES LIKE A GENERAL

Life’s not a Nollywood movie, you don’t need to fight every fight. 

Your resources are limited. So:

• When you’re broke, give what you can, not what you can’t.
• When you’re balling, don’t just throw money around, invest in people, legacy, and impact.

Remember, being smart is not about looking busy. 

It’s about being intentional.

• Plan ahead. 
• Cut off distractions. 
• Think long-term.

And above all else:

Be a blessing with a blueprint, not just a cheerful giver with an empty pocket.

Peace and plenty sense.